Did your ex see you as important? Why are they destroying your marriage now? Why have you opened your marital “gate” for someone who didn’t value you and left you to come destroy your home?
If your ex keeps telling you what to do in your current marriage, then it means you are emotionally, physically, and spiritually attached to them.
Stop using your exes as comfort zones when your marriage goes through a little turbulence. The storms in marriages don’t always stay forever. Stop inviting an ex who saw no good in you to come and put confusion in your path.
Interestingly, some exes monitor from afar. When they see you progressing in life, then they suddenly become nice and caring, trying to get themselves involved in your new relationship.
Don’t panic if they do that. It’s a trap to come into your life and create a “mess,” so be bold to tell them ‘NO’.
Never compare or disrespect your husband/wife to your ex. Your ex has no business in your marriage. If you want a support system, then create one with your partner, not your ex.
An ex who mistreated you will never change even if they come back to your life. Place value on yourself and respect yourself not to entertain people who never valued you. The problems in your marriage can not be solved by your ex, so stop making them an expert advicer.
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