My wife is a senior director at one of the multinational companies. She’s absolutely brilliant. I’m a business man.
She’s emotionally and spiritually supportive, very organized and runs our home efficiently. Due to her brilliance I can say we are well on our way to leaving some form of generational wealth for our kids, grandkids and even great grandkids, all things being equal. So you get the picture.
I must admit she has been the provider for the most part of our life together. No complaints.
Sexually She’s on point. She’s super attractive physically as well. No complaints there.
But I find myself wishing I were in a more traditional marriage. Where I’m the boss and She’s the mewura, mewura type.
Growing up, I saw my dad served specially. His word was final, even if it wasn’t the best solution my mom will “obey”. I find myself daydreaming about that type of marriage dynamic.
Hmmm…
I recently started entertaining one of my aunt’s workers. She completed JSS and bombed and that’s why she learned sewing. She’s 30. The way she curtsies when I come around just makes my manhood quiver.
I know I’m treading down dangerous path, but I just can’t help it.
I know my wife will dump me immediately I cheat. But I keep thinking maybe it’s a risk I’m willing to take.
How do I sort this situation. Coz I’m very close to sleeping with this girl. And yet I know, my wife is the “perfect” wife, if there is such a thing.
She hasn’t been disrespectful, she hasn’t made me feel less-than for not being the main provider as I keep reading some men experience. It’s just that she’s the one with majority of the great and wonderful ideas that have made our lives the way it is. Sometimes I wish she won’t be so right all the time.
But this girl makes me feel very in control.
I’m confused about my desires.
Please help.
Thanks.”
