It is beautiful to feel special and passionate about someone. If that feeling or passion will make you lose your sense of reasoning then you don’t need such kind of love. Many people started their relationship or marriage with intense emotion that they ignored all the red flags, cautions, warnings, advice and they are paying dearly for it today.
I am not saying you should not be in love; I want you to be sound and healthy in love, I want you to be safe and peaceful in love. Some people don’t know the impact a bad relationship has on their health. Insults, lies, manipulation, cheating, lack of communication just to mention can affect your health negatively.
Health is not always about going for medical checks-up or taking the right diet and medication. Many at times health is what comes from your mind, soul and heart. A relationship that makes you overthink is toxic to your health. A relationship that puts fear in you or makes you worried is likely to end your life.
A healthy relationship puts your mind, heart and soul at peace. You have great conversations, laugh your heart out, create and share beautiful memories. If your current relationship is having a negative impact on your life, you don’t need it. If your relationship cannot help your growth then you are better off without it.
If you want to find love in peace, you should be ready to disconnect from any chaos in your life. Let go of the people, things and places that create all the noise in your life. For love that is peaceful is not found in noise.
In conclusion, “Do you want to live and enjoy a long life? Then don’t say cruel things and don’t tell lies. Do good instead of evil and try to live at peace” – Psalm 34:12-14 (CEV).
– Frank Edem Adofoli (Counselor Adofoli)
Counselor, ADR Practitioner, Conference Speaker, Author
CEO, The Marriage Consult LTD.
T. +233201435300
